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Radio Show Host Under Fire For Telling Listeners to Beware Calling Crime Stoppers With Tips

Police are still working around the clock to solve the Lester Street murders. Six people, including two children, were found dead inside a home at 722 Lester on Monday, March 3, 2008.

Investigators are begging the public to call with any information that could lead to the arrest of the killer or killers. However, a popular Memphis radio host is being criticized for discouraging listeners from calling in tips to Crime Stoppers and police.

"When you get it and get all that money at one time, the people in the hood are gonna know you got it and people start talking," WDIA radio host Bobby O'Jay said on his morning radio show.

O'Jay told listeners to think twice about phoning in tips about the murders on Lester Street.

"People will hit you in the mouth for telling the smallest of things. 'Man, I heard you say so-and-so and so-and-so.' People will hurt you for telling the smallest of things, and nine times out of ten, people will be wondering where did that money come from? You can't just say 'I won it at the casino.'"

The Memphis city Council is offering a $30,000 reward for information that leads to the arrest and conviction of the person responsible for the Lester Street killings. They will give $5,000 for each victim.

Eyewitness News Everywhere asked Crime Stoppers Director Buddy Chapman and community leader Rev. Kenneth Whalum to sit down and listen to the comments said on Thursday morning's show.

"I think that's pretty good advice to encourage people, if they want to get that money, to be careful," said Rev. Whalum.

"[O'Jay] started out, whether he denies it or not, saying 'don't call on this', and then he evolved into good advice... 'if you call, be cautious,'" said Chapman.

Chapman said the comment that disturbed him most, was when O'Jay talked about a call he received from one of his listeners.

"Bobby, I got to tell you," the caller said. "I've known some people who have gotten so much money from Crime Stoppers and the people knew. They told it and talk too much."

Chapman disagrees, stating, "In the 25-plus years Crime Stoppers has been in existence, we have not had anyone's identity revealed or anyone suffered retribution for aiding us."

Another listener called into the show, very upset with the remarks O'Jay made.

"I agree with you all of the time, but this morning, you were all out of left field," the caller said. "That was pretty untactful what you said this morning about the Crime Stoppers.

O'Jay fired back at the woman saying, "What you said ma'am, is not what I said. What you said is adding a negativity to something I was being positive about this morning. It was negative what you said this morning. I'm through with you, goodbye." O'Jay then hung up on the caller.

Rev. Whalum believes people should do the right thing, no matter what.

"I understand the principal people are gonna be nosy when someone has a lot of money... that's beside the point. The major thing to me is that murder is a matter of the heart, just as morals are a matter of the heart and if a person knows the truth, a person is going to come forward regardless of the consequences," Rev. Whalum said. "That's what I would encourage. It's morally right to share it with somebody."

Everyone agrees the fear of retribution is understandable, but Chapman says there is still a way to protect yourself and help police.

"This was a horrible crime and whoever did this is an extraordinarily dangerous person. So I'd say, if you feel in danger, don't get a number and collect a reward."

O'Jay also said Thursday morning that he received a call from the Memphis Police Department, asking why he was discouraging people from calling in tips. Eyewitness News Everywhere asked O'Jay if he wanted to speak with us about the controversy, but he declined.

What do you think? It's your turn to Speak Up! Memphis.

Published Thursday, March 06, 2008 3:32 PM by APhillips

Comments

 

Catgirl said:

I have always thought Bobby O'Jay was a twit, and I think so even more, now.

IF you get the money, nobody says you have to SPEND it. Put it in a savings account for your kid's college education. You stay safe, your kid benefits.

O'Jay is an idiot. Bet if it were someone in his family he'd sing a different tune.

Until we break this mentality of "don't snitch," don't do the right thing, etc. we all LOSE.  
March 6, 2008 3:56 PM
 

Dover said:

Bobby O'Jay proved just what a drooling idiot he is! This is another example of a bad role model for teens. Anyone who would say, "don't tell", is a whimpering wuss <I used the nice term>.  O'Jay should change his name and I'll let everyone use their imagination on what I  meant it should be.
March 6, 2008 4:14 PM
 

DrWhite said:

If Mike Fleming said something like that , he would be escorted out of his studio.
I demand that Bobby MF'in O'Jay be fired from his job right now.I have been offended !
March 6, 2008 5:26 PM
 

Zorro98067878 said:

In response to the Bobby O'Jay comment I feel that his whole theory was stupid.  It's hard to believe that someone will use the public airwaves to promote ignorance. A family has been brutally murdered and there loved ones need help help bringing this vicious psycho killer or killers to justice.  If it was up to me he would be out of job right now! and for Mr. Whalum Bobby O'jays comments were in no way right! He's telling the black community to stop snitching and he is stereotyping as well.  Read in between the lines people.  
March 6, 2008 5:31 PM
 

mnshadow53 said:

CatGirl and Dover are absolutely right.  Bobby O'Jay is a blithering idiot.  You don't have to blab and brag about getting the reward money.  Save it, or better yet, move away to a safe neighborhood.  Get a job!  Start living a productive life!  Teach your children to be God-fearing, responsible members of society!  The possibilities are endless.  You don't have to buy new $5,000.00 rims or snort the money up your nose!  
March 6, 2008 5:36 PM
 

Dover said:

"[O'Jay] started out, whether he denies it or not, saying 'don't call on this', and then he evolved into good advice... 'if you call, be cautious,'" said Chapman.
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I'm not surprised that Bobby O'Jay has refused to discuss this matter with the media.  He was ignorant enough to make the statements. He was arrogant enough to hang up on the lady that disagreed with him. But, he's not man enough to face the media.  Typical coward! But too bad...the statements were taped.

And..Whalum is just as bad for trying to candy coat the idiots statements.
March 6, 2008 6:43 PM
 

builtbyhh said:

That tells you alot, I mean really, who listens to him anyway.
March 6, 2008 7:34 PM
 

BreakingWind4U said:

If Bobby O'Jay  stood next to a tree that fell, would anyone hear it?
March 6, 2008 7:56 PM
 

East Memphis said:

People might be a little interested in "Bobby O'Jay"s past. His real name is not Bobby O'Jay and he doesn't want anyone knowing his real name.  This doesn't surprise me coming out of his mouth.
March 6, 2008 8:12 PM
 

denshye said:

It's not about the money and it's not about being safe. I wouldn't care what the crooks think if I knew who did it I would let them know on public television. That's very lowdown and coldhearted to killed those people and ecspecially the children. They don' even iknow what's going on and I don't think no one should fear a coward like that. If he ignorant and cowardly enough to do something like that,why be scared. I think everybody should have a gun present withthem at all times because these coldhearted criminal don't deserve to be walking the streets or doing time in jail. I think they should let the family torture them to their death and let them feel how they feel. If we let these crooks feel like we scared of them we would never be comforable in our homes. I think the police should knock on every door in the area and have patrolmen in every neighborhood in memphis that way some of this crime would stop and they would have better luck finding them.
March 6, 2008 9:24 PM
 

aceyville said:

People need to put they self in the people who lost love ones shoes and do the right thing Cause if i knew who did it, you all could interview me at the police station snitching, then at the car lot buying a car with the money i got from snitching
March 6, 2008 9:24 PM
 

DrWhite said:

LoL what in tha
March 6, 2008 9:29 PM
 

BrionnaC said:

People  need to hear the message and not what they want to hear. Understand that he was just saying that if you get the reward from crimestoppers you have to realize whats at stake. because they can come after you and your family if you start spending incredibly. These people have no value of the human life. If they killed two innocent children as well as four adults what do you think they would do to you if they got word that you were snitching. So becareful!!!!! And bobbyt o'jay was just letting you know how it is out on the streets.




i think ojay is right when court is in session they gone have to play evidence and the word gone get out the family is going to talk and somebody who know somebody gone know who told and they gone be dead right along with the other 9 and its gone be the same thing so what memphis police need to do is get in that apartment in do they damn job thats what they get paid for so let them do it. But i agree people do need 2 step up somebody killed two little boys. They aint got no kind of heart. Im just saying be careful when u doing the right thing. and what i mean by that is if you get money from crimestoppers dont tell anybody. I think bobby o'jay wasr right!!!!!!  
March 6, 2008 9:35 PM
 

ladyt said:

Bobby O'Jay is just the reason that we can't rise in the community. He made a public speech about nothing. You would thing that a person who comes in contact with the public on a daily basis would at least have the sense God gave a leaf, but that was not the case.
I don't feel he should be fired because everyone needs their job, but I don't think talk radio is the job for him especially when the advice you give comes from the bottom of your &$$!!!
March 6, 2008 10:10 PM
 

Static said:

 
Static said:
I was listening to WDIA this mornng and what Bobby said  when you call crime stoppers you should be careful and not tell other people you called in with information to solve the crime or you could be hurt by the criminal that committed the crime.

What's wrong in saying that.
March 6, 2008 10:10 PM
 

Fishnlawyr said:

Here is a radical idea...Call CrimeStoppers...help solve a crime...decline the money...go to bed tonight knowing that you helped your community and that all of the thanks you need is knowing that the people of the community appreciate your anonymous assistance.
March 6, 2008 10:24 PM
 

ROCHard said:

It was a sad tradegy tha happen on Lester St. The comment that were made by the radio host seems to be viewed very critical by his viewers. But i remind you that we are residents of shelby county. The crime rate is high, and the only thing he did was remind us was the potential dangers that we could encounter. My heart goes out to the family that this horrible crime affects but the reality is that when you dont know what you are dealing with you should take cautions until we know what we are dealing with as citizens. If the people who committed this crime was evil enough to take the lives of innocent kids they would not think twice about harming  the person who came foward with information that could bring justice to this family, before the memphis finest complete the investigation.    
March 6, 2008 10:54 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

How about this great idea. If people would start turning these worthless thugs in, there wouldn't be all these leeches of society on the streets to scare people. These idiots wouldn't be so brave if they knew that people would run their tails up a flag pole as soon as some stupid thug started bragging about what he did. Why don't these thugs go break into ojay's house and steal all his stuff and hurt his family. He just said he won't tell. Sounds like a pretty sweet deal. What kind of little girl would tell people to back down from doing right and trying to clean up Memphis? I think all the cops that are out there trying to do their jobs should stand out in front of the studio tomorrow until this little flower apologizes for what he said and admit he was wrong. To all our good officers, ojay just made your job that much harder.
March 6, 2008 11:29 PM
 

Static said:

To:  
Fishnlawyr, ROCHard, nvrplyn

All the comments you guys have made Bobby also made reference to about this crime. This was something the news report casually left out. Asia even said "To Hell with you for withholding information for money to solve any crime."

The only part they decided to make news worthy was the part of he said about not calling, and he didn't say not call.

This got more press than when Carmellow Anthony Basketball Player for Denver was in a stop snitching video for gang bangers.  

Which was shown on a segment of America's Most Wanted.

Anthony's said in the video snitches need to get their heads busted and their *** beat for talking.  This is the true ignorance of crime a dumb *** with wealth.
March 7, 2008 7:49 AM
 

Static said:

   
ladyt

WDIA and talk radio serves a purpose to the community by informing and talking about the current events that shape our country and community.  If for once you had thought of this before taking a swig from that bottle that stands before you maybe you would have thought better before making that statement.

The First Amendment gives you certain freedoms to say what you will to a degree, yet this is regulated.

You can not make a focused comment if you have not listen to the show in it's entirety.
March 7, 2008 7:58 AM
 

mnshadow53 said:

Bobby O'Jay may be right telling people to be careful regarding accepting the reward money, but that was a back peddling attempt to cover up his original comments...which were "don't snitch."  I think he is a pathetic excuse for a human being....telling people not to snitch!  Six people were killed....two were children.  Three other children were horribly injured.  What kind on man would encourage people "not to snitch" to get vicious, animalistic killers like that off the streets?????
March 7, 2008 9:10 AM
 

barakama said:

Gangs and drugs have taken over in Memphis as well as other cities. Race, color or religion has nothing to do with it. If anyone knows anything about the Lester Street
crime, they must let Police know, even the smallest thing. It could be any of us any time that has a nightmare like this happen to our family. Mr Bobby O'Jay should bow his head in shame and be put on extended leave without pay!
March 7, 2008 9:39 AM
 

Citizen said:

I don't think the media should comment with their own opinions when there is an active crime police is trying to solve. There are many people who usually just scans through their radio channels and might have only heard the comment made by Bobby Ojay, "People will hurt you for telling the smallest of things, and nine times out of ten, people will be wondering where did that money come from."  Which would put fear in them not to get involved.
March 7, 2008 10:15 AM
 

Static said:

   
mnshadow53

Did you hear the show at all yesterday?  Or are you going by excerpts the news posted.  They didn't even play the whole thing they played bits of the comments no matter what you are hearing it's not the whole thing.

Bobby never said anything about stop snitching, he never made that comment period.
 
Citizen
There are many stories of people doing the right thing and dying for it, my sister was murdered in Memphis for turning in a drug dealer for selling drugs in front of her home and this peace of filth never spent one damn day in jail.

Take it for what you want unless you her the whole show yesterday you will never know the truth for yourself.
March 7, 2008 10:47 AM
 

Static said:

   
barakama

If you didn't hear the show you can't make that statement, without true facts.
March 7, 2008 10:48 AM
 

barakama said:

I heard the show and I got the message, Static. Even so, people should help get the folks that did this awful crime. It doesn't matter what someone on radio or Tv says. Do the right thing! Help bring these people to light to account for what they did to those innocent babies.
March 7, 2008 10:56 AM
 

WWSD00 said:

Crime Stoppers should stop offering money, Instead they should open an anonymous wheel shop and reward the "snitches" with big 30" wheels for their hoopty.

March 7, 2008 11:45 AM
 

nomoreMemphis said:

I don't live in Memphis - never have and never will. However, if anyone does know anything about the Lester St. incident, they SHOULD come forward. They could use the reward money to move the heck out of the crime-infested Memphis. This city is past the point of no return.
March 7, 2008 12:45 PM
 

Naynay said:

Ok Bobby Ojay would be singing a different tune if it was one of his own. That is not a message to spread to the young of this city! There is something not right with any of this. It saddens me to hear that we as civilians shouldnt tell if we know something that might help aprehend the criminals with this " stop snitching"! That is what is wrong with this City now too much crime and everyone scared to say anything, guess what message we are putting out? Could it be we are telling folks we are scared of the criminals in this city? If so they have WON then, stop being whimps and start sqealing. This family is a target for something and it is sad that you ( killer or killers) had to kill a 2month old baby let alone to shoot the kids! I hope when you are caught you will be hung. To hell with a life sentence I say fry your asses!!! Or better yet release them to the community and let us be the judge and jury over thier fate just like they took matters into thier own hands and killed you also shall be KILLED!!!! Memphis UNITE and take back our streets!!!
March 7, 2008 1:00 PM
 

AKH81 said:

I can't believe Bobby O'Jay had the nerves to say that. It takes an evil person with no morals, no heart, and no concious to do this horrible murder. To tourcher children, makes them killers monsters. To say don't snitch is a slap in the face to the families of those who died. They deserve to know who killed  their sons, daughters, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, grandchildren, and etc. To Bobby O'Jay, if that was your kid and grandkids that got killed, would you be saying the same thing. In the manner that the killer(s) did those kids and their parents was horrible. It's as if it was a torcher chamber and the parents had to sit their and watch their kids be killed. Those children that lived through it will have nightmares for years to come and will never be the same again. PLEASE, if you know anything, please tell, if I knew anything, I would help the police get the *** so justice can be served. When they get caught, they need to suffer the same fate that those kids suffered.  
March 7, 2008 3:56 PM
 

tiscac said:

Wow...  I can't wait to get out of this city.
March 7, 2008 4:33 PM
 

okinfayetteco said:

I was born in Memphis, spent the first 45 years of my life there, I moved because I felt it was no longer safe. It is the fear of retribution that makes the streets safe for criminals. If they knew that the probability was better than average that people would turn them in, it might not be so lucrative to sell drugs, rob homes, rape and murder.
I did not hear what Bobby said, it does not matter, that is the way people feel anyway. If you know anything it is your civic responsibility to give the information needed to apprehend these animals. The world is watching.
I still love my city but I am ashamed.
March 7, 2008 6:53 PM
 

Diego said:

O'Jay should be fired. Period. Think about all the TV personalities that have lost their jobs for saying something stupid. This was more than stupid. It was irresponsible. What a total jerk. Typical Memphis mentality. I have only lived here for one year and already I'm ready to move. Memphis has so much to offer, but the crime is out of control. Then this idiot goes on the air and tells people not to help if they have information.
March 7, 2008 7:40 PM
 

Dover said:

Diego said:  Typical Memphis mentality. Then this idiot goes on the air and tells people not to help if they have information

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<ahemmmmm> I agree with everything you said except the above. Not everyone in Memphis agreed with Bobby O'Jay. The educated, mentally balanced Memphians disagreed with what he said and made their opinions clear.  Sadly, it didn't do any good. Not all Memphians are idiots...................
March 7, 2008 8:42 PM
 

irishoaks said:

Consider the source. He should be fired for his irresponsibility.  It is similar to yelling "fire" in a building.  What a coward.  Someone earlier suggested making the call and declining the reward, then the person would not have to worry about the money and making excuses about where it came from.  If anyone has any leads---CALL.  Let's get these animals who would hurt those children.  Tell the tipper it was O'Jay on the phone giving the tip, Everybody can give him the credit since he is so civic minded and concerned.
March 7, 2008 8:45 PM
 

Dover said:

irishoaks said:
Tell the tipper it was O'Jay on the phone giving the tip, Everybody can give him the credit since he is so civic minded and concerned.

------------------------------------------
Great idea!!!!
March 7, 2008 8:58 PM
 

Static said:

It's a pity that you guys feel  that way....

   
barakama

The police should instant court, as they did the people of that house.
March 7, 2008 10:26 PM
 

DrWhite said:

Static the only pity here is YOU !
March 8, 2008 9:26 AM
 

wlkbifaith said:

I was born and raised in Memphis (John Gaston Hospital in the mid 50's). Moved to Los Angeles years ago for the weather and just to experience all the great things I heard about the city: diversity, beaches, Disneyland, etc..but more importantly for what I considered a better opportunity and environment to be in business. I love it here, except that we have the very same challenges with crime, the economy etc..I think the race relations are probably better, because we have frequent contact with people of various races and cultures daily..However, institutional racism is woven into the fabric of business and most industries...We are not exempt from the presence of gross ignorance that manifests itself in racial prejudice, hate and violence. People are just sick and hurting everywhere and lash out..Unstable people everywhere, of all races look for excuses to act on their internal weaknesses and lack of purpose. People are unstable in my opinion because of the moral breakdown in society as a whole...anything goes..The belief is God is now up for debate although His Presence is evident. There is a twisted "policy" prevelant at every level of society from the very poor to the extremely wealthy and it's rooted in "selfishness".
Since this is my first "real" post. I though I would drop in a little bit of background. (I dropped in a comment once a while back).
I have been reading the posts which carry perspectives from the whole gammut of profound to stupid...interesting to boring...intelligent to just weird....
I was surprised to see that very few people seem to understand the significance of the reality "gang retaliation"..Most law abiding people would disagree with the DJ telling people not to "snitch" which is a ridiculous rule that is out there to protect criminals. But why not warn people who my not be aware or even consider that they may jeopardize themselves and their loved ones by "doing the right thing" and informing on someone for reward money? For those of us who are Christians and live by faith, we know we have to put our trust in God who gives us wisdom. God will direct our path and show us specifically how and when to get involved. He protects us when we trust him and not just rush out and do our own thing in our own way....I'm prayerful that the people responsible for this heinous crime on Lester will be "captured" and dealt with..I have family and friends in Memphis and want the best for you all. We are all leaders and role models whether we choose to be or even recognize that we are..That responsibilty comes with being here..somebody is watching you. Do the right thing..Remember there is only a small percentage of people out there who are consistently wreaking havoc in the community...It continues because the criminal justice system recycles criminals in and out of the prison system and the "goodpeople" refuse to let God show them how to effectively put a stop to the mahem (at least make a potential criminal know that he has a very high price to pay for violating someone else). Thanks for you time...Be Blessed and Don't Quit
March 8, 2008 1:31 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

DrWhite---What took you so long? I was waiting for you to come in and help Static with his lack of reality.  Its amazing that people still defend people like ojay.
 Static---I didn't hear the show. I try to listen to something that might teach me something and I don't think ojay has anything to teach. If he didn't say all that, where would the story come from? And was the segment I heard on the news just edited from the last few months to make it sound like he said all that? Sure, he may not have said those exact words. Is that what you are looking for? However, even to suggest that people not call in, which he strongly did, is so wrong. Are you trying to tell me he didn't at least do that? Please prove that to me.
  DrWhite help this guy out.
And please people, check your grammar and spelling and all that. Your point isn't very strong when it doesn't make sense because you write like you speak. Spelling how it sounds is not even much help when people in the south speak like they do. And we wonder why we never get the respect we think we deserve.
March 8, 2008 5:11 PM
 

Mr PEB said:

I am new to this one.  Hello I am PEB.  I am an African American that lives in Denver now.  So what that said, Static, I don't understand you.

First of all, Bobby O'Jay not only did not give good advice, but you take up for that stuff.  Man look, you got to stand for something or fall for anything.  I have a question, if it was your close immediate family, wouldn't you want someone to step up and help.  The statement was irresponsible and without a doubt, he should be fired.

Second of all, why do you listen to that garbage for anyway?  Bobby O'Jay is past his time.  There only two reasons why he is on the air.  One is because of ratings.  He can get you and others to listen to that same ole racist stuff.  And two, he wants to, just like the mayor, perpetuate hate.  This is so 1980's.  I am not scared of thugs.  If it was in my hood, I would tell the police in a drop of a dime, and if I die, it was Jesus who took my life, not the thug.
March 8, 2008 6:38 PM
 

DrWhite said:

There is no helping Static. He comes in here and different blogs, under different names, but he always loses it and the real him always shows.
March 8, 2008 6:40 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

Mr PEB-It is good to hear another good African American out there. If more had views like you, racism would be as obsolete as ojay. Its like that ridiculous Commercial Appeal reporter Wendi Thomas saying, "I'm tired of people telling us to get over it. They don't tell the Jews to get over it." How dare she say that. I have never had a Jew throw the holocaust in my face or use the fact that they are Jewish as a crutch. So until she has half the good wisdom of Mr PEB, she should just be quiet. She has been almost as bad as willie.
 Dr.White--I agree with you. Its funny how fitting Static's name is, huh?
March 8, 2008 11:47 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

Static---what kind of work do you do? You sound like a defense attorney with a guilty client. Are you an attorney? Does your wife feel the same way? Women are usually the more emotionally based of the sexes. Maybe you should get her on her to talk. I'm sure she would feel differently about telling people not to turn in CRIMINALS for hurting kids. Do you have kids? I would think not. If you think its ok for this idiot to even suggest this stuff, you musn't have kids.
March 9, 2008 12:52 AM
 

DrWhite said:

nvrplyn , Go to some of the past pages of this blog. You will learn quickly what Static is all about.
March 9, 2008 8:21 AM
 

Static said:

   
Mr PEB

First Bobby ideals are not racist, he has given the people of the Memphis listening area something no other radio station in any of the fifty states could.

A voice, the people especially black people need to be heard, and make their concerns heard.  I don't agree with a lot of callers yet I do understand some of their fears some warranted and otherwise.

The only way for a community to improve is through rational dialog, something you can not get from Limbaugh who will make the comment There have never been an Successful African American Farmer in the United states.

When you call to challenge him on it he will not take the call.  Bobby gives everyone a chance regardless of race or creed.  To call his work  for a people "garbage" is racist within it self. Now for the  mayor, perpetuating hate this I will agree.

Two things in closing, you have the right too listen or not that is a matter of choice you can not decide for me how I spend my time or money.  As a  professional self employed I tune into WDIA and my clients like him so that when I opt to change the channel they ask me to turn it back.

This is refreshing since a majority of them are white.  Far as "drwhite" goes he make stupid and racist remarks on this blog as for proof go to wreg.com The Rant for the month of January all the proof you need is there.

If you are a brother I wish you well, if not so be it.  Yet still when your Hoop Star Carmellow Anthony said that snitchers need their heads busted, the only one spoke out was

John Walsh of America's Most Wanted.
March 9, 2008 10:23 AM
 

Static said:

 
nvrplyn

I have one child she is 16, I am 46, I work with professional athletes, what is your profession?

Outside of critic of others?

My passion to see this senseless violence to stop runs deep if you would have read my past posts, I lost a sister to Memphis violence she was killed for turning a drug dealer for dealing drugs on the corner near her home.

The day she was to appear in court she was found dead so if Bobby would have said "don't tell".   I would brought the fuel to burn him out, he didn't say it and he does the community a service as well as provide entertainment.

Right, now I must walk my dog have a good day.
March 9, 2008 10:33 AM
 

nvrplyn said:

Static--I'll agree with you as far as saying ojay didn't directly say "don't snitch". Thats as far as I go. I wouldn't say I'm a critic of others. I like to think I help people see the error of their ways. From the direct quotes I heard and read, ojay pretty much told people not to snitch. I am sorry for your loss. I hate to hear that someone close to you was taken in such a horrible way. With that said, how can you tell people he didn't even imply to hold back information? From everything out there he clearly did. So far you have not proved that.
  As far as professions go, after working in a certain field for several years, I am back at school trying to better myself. I really could care less what you do. It was a rhetorical question.
   I grew up in a very low income black neighborhood. In my years I've been shot at a few times and almost beat up more. All for being a little different. I know what its like to be scared. Its never an excuse to not do the right thing. Fear is the thugs only empowerment. Without fear, a thug is just a worthless, weak loser.
March 9, 2008 1:50 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

Oh, its good to hear you are a dog lover/owner. I am as well. See, there  is always common ground even with people with which you don't agree.
March 9, 2008 1:52 PM
 

Static said:

 
nvrplyn

I grew up in the Westwood Chickasaw area in fact where the young Farley High School Student was found dead I lived five houses down from there.

It heart me to my very soul each day you kids throwing a life as if to exterminate insects.

Pitiful......

I got to go but I will be back on line by 6:30 pm if you care to chat and post on your feelings of the crime situation in Memphis.....

Consider this I am 1 hour ahead here in Virginia got clients to tend to and meal plans to email and fax.......



This is about personal responsibility..
March 9, 2008 2:45 PM
 

Static said:

Fear is the thugs only empowerment. Without fear, a thug is just a worthless, weak loser.

Fear not for thou are with thee...

There are three things I say to myself when fear grips me something I learned in the third grade..

The Lords Prayer

The pledge of Allegiance

And My country tears of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing land were my father died land were the pilgrims cried from every mountain side
let Freedom ring.

Remember those, and you will be a Bad a$$ too.

Melrose High School class of 1982
March 9, 2008 2:52 PM
 

Static said:

typo

each day to see young kids throwing
March 9, 2008 2:54 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

Static- I appreciate what you are saying, but I don't want to be a bad a$$. I am me. My own person. I don't imitate anyone. Thats a problem with the criminals. They imitate everyone that they should. In Memphis, it happens to be rampant among the black community. When the black community begins to take personal responsibility for their kids, then crime will drop. Parents don't monitor what their kids do. Kids don't respect themselves or anyone around them. Their history, which so many fought to have put in the schools, doesn't matter to them. They might as well go and dance on King's and Parks' grave. I still think that any young thug that gets arrested should have to work at the Civil Rights museum. Maybe then they would get an idea of dreams that were set into motion for them. You are right. It is all about personal responsibility. So when is the black community going to take personal responsibility for these young kids that have been forgotten? There is no right and wrong in their minds. Just what they desire.
March 9, 2008 5:35 PM
 

Static said:

This is were you are wrong, I am challenged all the time by White American, Just last week I had a white person call me uppity because I can't stand those lying a$$ Clinton's.

So he tried to call me out, but one of my clients advised him that would not be a good ideal.  So he called the police and told him I threaten him.

Problem there I know a good majority of Police officers here.  the officers said Sir I know this man and if he told me you started this I would be inclined to believe him over you.

That is true respect.
March 9, 2008 6:43 PM
 

Static said:

That respect came from helping a kid that was struck by car running a stop sign, my intervention save a college student life that day and earning the respect of others.

Now far as these thugs goes they are terrorist plan and simple the military should be called out and let them go after these thugs with the police.

 And if they want to shoot it out, let the Marines , Army, Navy, and Air Force ferret these ba$tards out and Kill them  all no matter of the nationality it is going to happen someday might as well be now.....
March 9, 2008 6:48 PM
 

Static said:

Far as kids being responsible for their own actions I see responsible black kids daily it is left up to mind set and what is instilled in them by their parents.

Me, I wanted to travel so I let the Military be my guide. and not the streets.
March 9, 2008 7:20 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

Static---I'm not sure if you were responding to me or not. It seems like not. I wasn't addressing you in what I wrote. You seem to be taking care of yourself and others. I'm not sure how you took that personally. You are neither a kid, a thug, or a present Memphian. I do appreciate your concern with the area, though. You may see responsible kids everyday, but again, not a current Memphian, at least by what you wrote. By the way, I was just repeating what you had said about personal responsibility. So, do you disagree with what you said?
March 9, 2008 8:39 PM
 

DrWhite said:

nvrplyn , be careful, he's reeling you in. You are learning about the loose cannon they call STATIC.
March 10, 2008 7:22 AM
 

Static said:

 
nvrplyn

I agree with you whole heartedly, yet I feel these kids want to scare people into giving them what they want, Let me point you to a TV program that I like a lot......

Personal Defense Television

Vehicle Defense - Criminals attack people in their vehicles. Do you know how to manage your seatbelt, draw safely and effectively and shoot through glass?

Realizing Revolvers For Self Defense - Though known for his expertise with the 1911 pistol, Clint Smith calls himself a "wheelgun guy

Women's Defense Plan -- Women enjoy shooting and their self-defense techniques apply equally well to men.

Staying Fluid in a Gunfight --In real gunfights, things are always moving...

If you feel sometimes terrorized, take your personal safety up a notch.  I know what you mean about how kids talk and act toward people in Memphis, they talk rude and pushy but I demand respect from them and that is something they can't understand so they step back and apologize.

Maybe it's my size or the thought I will beat that little ba$tards A$$ if you back down today you will coward tomorrow.  Yet we are the adult, and these little turds run the show.

To hell with these ignorant little brats......
March 10, 2008 9:44 AM
 

missray292937 said:

Ok, here is the bottom line, he shouldn't have made that comment. Someone who is supposed to be a role model should not be giving out bad advice.  It should go un mentioned. If you get money from crime stoppers, don't let anyone know. Bottom Line we don't need some radio jockey telling us not to call. People are already scared to call and that doesn't help.  Second of all memphis is a great place to live but the crime is out of control maybe people need to let go of big willie and vote someone else in already. Willie is an arrogant tyrant and it is time for a freaking change.  Memphis will not get better till we wake up and stop voting the same ole idiots into office.
March 10, 2008 1:32 PM
 

mnshadow53 said:

What a novel concept....give a tip and DON'T take any money...how about doing it because it's the right thing to do?  
March 10, 2008 3:01 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

DrWhite---sort of like a water bed?
March 10, 2008 3:25 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

missray292937--Someone needs to give you a tv show in Memphis.

Static--sadly its too late, I fear, for this generation. The really sad thing is, they are having kids like rabbits because having sex with as many nasty, spread-eagle, no-panty-wearing, street-walking, disease-infested, welfare-receiving whores is  apparently one of the maybe three goals they have in life. Good people don't do that. Again, if parents were to teach kids how to live and respect others, this problem may not be as bad as it is.
March 10, 2008 3:33 PM
 

wlkbifaith said:

What is "snitching", anyway? If someone commits a criminal act against me or a family member; I find out who the culprit is and turn him in. Is that snitching??? Or is it ONLY when I inform the law about someone's activities that does not affect me personally or directly, then it becomes snitching? Maybe it is more practical and easier to just teach people to protect their own families and police their own communities? Provide some taxpayer money to train private citizens about safety and how to protect themselves. That way "snitching" won't be an issue. I have my own policy that starts with allowing God to be God in my life. This includes the belief in and the acknowledgement Word of God, The Holy Spirit and Guardian angels. Then I have adopted some "safety" and "awareness" practices. It seems to me personal safety factors in no matter who's involved; and someone would be extremely naive not to consider the possibility of retaliation if someone is being informed on.  It is very important to proceed wisely in all affairs; especially when it involves unpredictable humans. The Bible says wisdom is from ABOVE. One thing for sure, if the public never provides information, the cops are going to always have a hard time. Then the streets will be controlled by the those who don't mind taking advantage of people.  That brings us right back to believing in God and what we might call Divine Protection...living by faith in God is the ultimate way to live...
Jesus told his disciples to "Watch and Pray".

"Yea though I walk through the valley in the shadow of death"...You are with me" Psalm 23....See my earlier post.
March 10, 2008 5:09 PM
 

missray292937 said:

Give the information and not take the money, that is just dumn.  The people who offer that money obviously can afford it.  I definetly would not turn it down. I would donate it to cherity or help others but, not give it back to the people who don't need it.
March 10, 2008 9:08 PM
 

nvrplyn said:

missray---I take it back.
 
DrWhite and other---forgive me. spoke too soon
March 10, 2008 9:46 PM
 

missray292937 said:

you had a good point too though
March 11, 2008 10:09 AM
 

unsweetened said:

i have totally lost respect for bobby o'jay. how can u recomend that people keep their mouth shut during such a critical investigation.if it had been someone in his family that got killed he would singing a different tune. u seriously need to go to church and get saved, because an angel of God would never make a comment such as this one.
March 15, 2008 6:27 PM
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