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UPDATE 5/1/08: Memphis Teacher Accused of "Outing" Gay Students, MCS Releases Statement

Memphis, TN - Attorneys for the American Civil Liberties Union say Daphne Beasley, the principal of Hollis F. Price Middle College High School in South Memphis, went way beyond her role as educator.

The ACLU says in September 2007, Beasley asked her staff to give her the names of students who were couples, heterosexual and homosexual, because she wanted to keep an eye on them to cut down on public displays of affection.

She's accused of publicly posting the names of those students, including two boys, Andrew and Nicholas, who had just started dating.   The ACLU says that in doing so, Beasley revealed their relationship to other students, teachers and even their parents.

In a letter sent Tuesday, April 29, 2008 to Memphis City Schools, the ACLU says the principal's actions violated the students' constitutional rights to equal protection, freedom of expression and association, due process and privacy.

"Our first reaction was wow, this is unbelievable that a principal has gone this far," says ACLU attorney Christine Sun.   "The constitution protects all of us from the government intruding in our private lives when there isn't a reason to do that.  This was morally and legally wrong."

One of the young men, Nicholas, an 11th grader who just made the Dean's List, spoke with Eyewitness News Everywhere.

"It was actually frightening," he says, "to see a list with my name on it where not just other teachers could see but students as well."

Nicholas says his teachers and other students treat him differently as a result of Principal Beasley's decision and that he and Andrew have both had to deal with verbal assaults.   Nicholas was also not allowed to go on a trip to New Orleans to help rebuild homes because, as one of his teacher's explained, he would "embarrass" the school by engaging in gay affection.

"I really feel that my personal privacy was invaded," Nicholas says.  "I mean, Principal Beasley called my mother and outed me to my mother!"

The ACLU wants the school district to create new policies that would prevent these types of acts from happening again.   The group is also asking for compensation for Andrew and Nicholas and for an apology from the principal.

And the final demand from the ACLU says attorney Sun:  "Some sort of reprimand to the principal because this type of thing should not be happening at any school."

Eyewitness News Everywhere requested a response from MCS.   Van Davis Turner Jr., the associate general counsel for the Memphis City Schools Board of Education, released the following statement:  "We take all allegations of invasion of privacy and discrimination seriously.  At this time, we have not completed our internal investigation of this matter.   Once we have completed our investigation, we will submit a formal response to the ACLU, directly addressing the issue.  We look forward to working with the ACLU to amicably resolve this matter, if possible."

The ACLU wants a reply from MCS by Friday, May 9th or legal action will be pursued.

Hollis F. Price Middle College High School opened in 2004 in a collaborative effort with LeMoyne Owen College.  Students can earn a high school diploma and two years of college credit.   About 150 kids are enrolled right now in grades 9 through 12.

Click here to visit the ACLU website and to read the letter sent to Memphis City School board members.

UPDATE: Memphis City Schools released a statement via school attorneys regarding the situation on Thursday, May 1, 2008:

“Memphis City Schools is committed to providing its students with the best possible learning environment.  Hollis F. Price Middle College is an accelerated high school, which is located on the historically black LeMoyne-Owen College campus.  Eligible students may enroll in college classes in pursuit of completing the first two years of college while attending this high school.

Because we have high school students on a college campus, we have to carefully monitor the activities of our students.  We are at all times
proactive in assuring that our students are provided a safe, nurturing and disciplined learning climate.  Unfortunately, in fall 2007, we received numerous complaints from LeMoyne-Owen College faculty and staff that some of our student couples were involved in explicit sexual behavior in public view on the college campus.

In light of this information from LeMoyne-Owen faculty and staff, the principal of Hollis F. Price made several general announcements to the student body that this behavior would not be tolerated.  Regrettably, the improper behavior continued.  Therefore, the principal felt it appropriate to notify the parents of those children she knew to be involved romantically.  This was done in an effort to gain the support of the parents in reinforcing the message that such behavior is in violation of Memphis City Schools’ Student Code of Conduct.  The principal did not list any information other than students’ names on her personal call list, and she certainly did not specify the sexual orientation of any student. Additionally, the list was never posted publicly anywhere at the school.

It is the position of Memphis City Schools that the principal did act in an appropriate manner in order to correct a serious issue at the school and that Memphis City Schools has not subjected either of these students to
discriminatory treatment.

In the coming days, we will submit a formal response to the ACLU.  We look forward to working with them to amicably resolve this matter.”

What do you think? It's your turn to Speak Up! Memphis.

Published Tuesday, April 29, 2008 5:29 PM by APhillips

Comments

 

frantea said:

I think there is no place in the city schools for a prinsipal or teacher to be allowed to do this to a student (or anyone else for that matter). To go that far shows that the principal is not to be anywhere in the school system. If the Memphis school systm allows this person to stay in this job a lawsuit should be brought against the whole school system. To be a principal and not know this is an evasion of privacy makes me wonder how she got the position in the first place.

Frances Teague
April 29, 2008 9:33 PM
 

ladydanie said:

I Find it ridiculous that some moron would As you say"Out" Teens.As if it isn't hard enough for them in high school as it is. It is one of the main reasons that most Gay, *** and Bisexuals are depressed, cutting, or killing themselves.Society is really a screwed up place these days and MCS Should be ashamed.This is not right or Fair for those to kids.And its showing others like them that they are going to be outcasts.GET A GRIP ON YOURSELVES AMERICA AND LEAVE KIDS ALONE!!!!
April 29, 2008 10:15 PM
 

susan145 said:

We absolutely cannot "leave kids alone".  They are kids.  They need direction and guidance.  I think the principal did the right thing to let the parents know what is going on.  The parents are still responsible for the child's actions.  There should be no big secrets between minors and their parents, especially one this dramatic.  How can you be a good parent if you don't know what's going on?  What the parent does with the information is his/her business.  I would like to know the reasoning for posting the list (with several couples) for the public to see, but is this considered confidential information?  Apparently someone "outed" this couple to the principal.  Hats off to the principal for making contact to the parents.  Remember, it takes a village to raise kids these days!
April 29, 2008 10:37 PM
 

East Memphis said:

While this child should not have been "outed" to other students - outing to the parent was appropriate.  

He needs his butt kicked for posting it where students could see it.

Being gay is pathological and for the vast majority a learned behavior.  Gay people suffer emotional problems at far higher levels than the population as a whole. (Of course we are told this is because of our intolerance - not issues on their part - it is that way for all "minorities".)  It is evidence of development issues.  The parents needed to be told of the situation.
April 30, 2008 7:47
 

East Memphis said:

"  ladydanie said:
GET A GRIP ON YOURSELVES AMERICA AND LEAVE KIDS ALONE!!!!"
___________________________________________________________________ Ahh yes danie - we see the fruits of that all over the crime section of the paper.  Any parent who leaves their child "alone" will end up with a troubled child.  Maybe gay - the militant gays are trying to legitamize their lifestyle in grade school now!!!!
April 30, 2008 7:52
 

StudentRep said:

I am a studet at HFP and i was shocked wen i first heard about our principal doin such things. Yes, parents should know such things about their children, but did the principal have to be the one to tell them. She had no knowledge of how those parents would react or what state of mind the studnts were in. As a teenager attending this school I can tell u that it is stressful..We undergo many obstacles because we are actually forced to grow up faster. I know the students and they are great students my principal is a great principal but she should think more about things before she does them. I disagree with her actions because her actions embarrassed our school not the coulple.
April 30, 2008 10:25
 

StudentRep said:

I am a studet at HFP and i was shocked wen i first heard about our principal doin such things. Yes, parents should know such things about their children, but did the principal have to be the one to tell them. She had no knowledge of how those parents would react or what state of mind the studnts were in. As a teenager attending this school I can tell u that it is stressful..We undergo many obstacles because we are actually forced to grow up faster. I know the students and they are great students my principal is a great principal but she should think more about things before she does them. I disagree with her actions because her actions embarrassed our school not the coulple.
April 30, 2008 10:25
 

StudentRep said:

I am a studet at HFP and i was shocked wen i first heard about our principal doin such things. Yes, parents should know such things about their children, but did the principal have to be the one to tell them. She had no knowledge of how those parents would react or what state of mind the studnts were in. As a teenager attending this school I can tell u that it is stressful..We undergo many obstacles because we are actually forced to grow up faster. I know the students and they are great students my principal is a great principal but she should think more about things before she does them. I disagree with her actions because her actions embarrassed our school not the coulple.
April 30, 2008 10:25
 

marriedwchild said:

I don't see what the big deal is, she is trying to run a school. This is not a dean in a college, this is a principal at a high school these kids are not grown, she wanted to know who all the couples were and she found out.  If they are not ashamed of being gay and thought it was nothing wrong with it why did they care who knew and who she told.  I think she was right, these are still children and as an adult I think she had a right to tell the parents.  We cannot leave our kids alone, that is the problem know someone left these  kids alone and know they call themselves gay!
April 30, 2008 11:02
 

HFPSenior said:

I feel that our pricinpal had the right to tell the parents their child's sexually decisions. She has tried to cut down on the PDA for as long as the school has been open. It isn't fair that she was made out to be the bad person. to comment on the list, if it was there for the whole school to see, why when I went into the office there was no list. The choice of the child has been known around the school for a long time and it was their decision to let it be known around the school. This incident wasn't a shock because the students didn't know about the couple, but it was a shocker because our pricipal was made out to be a bad person. She would never do anything that was drimental to our future. Who ever wrote this story just made it public that these students are in a relationship together all over the world. So, you said what the pricipal did involving the list was wrong, but the news just made it worst.  Now all the family of the student knows who he has become and if the situation had of been handled outside of the court and news all of america wouldn't know this information.
April 30, 2008 12:38 PM
 

KennedyLyfe said:

Okay, I am a graduating senior from Hollis F. Price Middle College High School. We the student body has worked very hard to keep a good name for our school. Being one of the first to ever attend this school makes it hard now because all of the negative light that it being shined on our school. I am not saying that the actions taken were right but its not just hurting Nick its hurting us as a school. We have had to go through many changes from the jump being apart of LeMoyne-Owen College and the pomblems that they faced these last past years. It just seems to me that when something good happens there is always something bad going to follow right behind it. I love my school and my Princpal and I accpect her for her and all of her flaws. I never made my life style a secert and don't plan on doing so because, yes I am a student at Hollis Price and yes my sexual orientation is different. I just say this I hope whatever happens don't ruin what we the first senior class has build in the future. If you are gay you are gay, if you are straight you are straight.No matter what you are you are you and people should like you for you and there are more people or students at our school that are just like all the others that has a different sex orientation. I am strong and i hope that all the students at our school remain faithful to what we committed to. and all the gay people or whatever you want to call them stay true to yourself. The mann above know what needs to worked out in the long run.......
April 30, 2008 12:50 PM
 

mnshadow53 said:

East Memphis said: While this child should not have been "outed" to other students -outing to the parent was appropriate. He needs his butt kicked for posting it where students could see it.
_____________________________________________________________________

I agree.  This should never have been posted where other students could see it!  I am not sure whether it was okay to "out" the students to their parents, but if it were my child, I would want to know.  I am not so sure that a "gay" teenager is really sure of his or her sexual orientation.  I am sure some are, but some are just confused, lonely, trying to fit in somewhere, anywhere.  I would want to know in order to help my child in whatever way I could!  
April 30, 2008 1:21 PM
 

AMBER85 said:

Maybe it was b/c I went to a small school....I dunno but we trusted our principal with personal info....we looked to her for guidance....when I was a teenager, I didnt want my parents to know everything....its not that I was a bad kid causing a lot of trouble, I just didnt want to tell them everything (its part of being a teenager)  By "outing" these students the principal has made herself not very trustworthy person!!!  A principal is not just someone who enforces rule but also someone who is a friend and a student should be able to look to them for guidence.  Maybe those students were not ready to come out to their parents just yet!!!!
April 30, 2008 1:43 PM
 

Monty said:

"Being gay is pathological"

No it is not, over 100 psychological, psychiatric, medical, nursingm and social worker organizations have come out and stated that all evidence shows that homosexuality and bisexuality are normal.

"and for the vast majority a learned behavior."

No it is not.  There is no one teaching homosexuality.  Homosexuality has existed at least since the dawn of man's history.  It is also found in hundreds of other species in nature.  If you believe this nonse since who taught the animals?

"Gay people suffer emotional problems at far higher levels than the population as a whole."

The only emotional problems that they suffer at "higher" levels than the general population is due to harrassment and discrimination by non-homosexuals.

Good parents usually, if not always, know if their children are homosexuals or not.  It is not the place of any school official to out a student.  A homophobic parent can do a lot of damage (not just physical) to a gay offspring.  Just like the muslim father in Iraq who killed his daughter, just because a muslim man told him she was having a relationship with a british soldier.

This principle should be punished for what she did and what she said.
April 30, 2008 2:01 PM
 

Cross86 said:

The simple fact is, coming out should be left up entirely to the individual. It is not the responsibility of the school administration to post ANYONE'S relationship publicly, regardless of sexuality. In this case, however, there is added irresponsibility on the part of the principal because she should have known that implicating the homosexual students could leave them open to bullying and a lot worse. Need I even mention the Matthew Shepard story? High school is bad enough without being outed by the administration to parents and everyone else.
April 30, 2008 5:16 PM
 

tennisplaya01 said:

As a former Hollis F. Price teacher, I can say with absolute certainty that Daphne acted inappropriately.  As I would remind the Hollis F. Price students who have posted on this site, the government, as well as Memphis City Schools, prohibits the explotiation of, display of, or manipulative use of religion by employees.  Therefore, Daphne's immature decision to gather and post such a list is unconstitutional and to provide parents with a religious rant when she is fully aware that she receives funding for the school from Memphis City Schools, who then receives funding from the government, which obligates her to act in the best interest of the District not her own interests.  This is not the first time that Daphne has made such a list of couples; it actually started Spring of 2006.  Daphne frequently singles out students based upon her likeness for them and even agreed (if this student applied) to not allow a student to go to the Middle College National Leadership Conference because she was pregnant.  The list goes on and on with injustices that she has personally been responsible for doing against students and teachers.  However, to ignore these allegations because of her favorable treatment of you as a student is a bias and prejudice against the rights of all people whether hetrosexual or homosexual.  Even though we are faced with diversity, whether racial or social or sexual, we are all a part of the United States of America and have agreed to abide by the rules that have been established; as long as there is a separation between church and state, such opinions, specifically Daphne's personal opinions regards to lifestyle, are prohibited by federal law.
April 30, 2008 7:25 PM
 

Diego said:

susan145 said:
"Remember, it takes a village to raise kids these days!"

What kind of person believes this? It takes parents to raise a child. The village is full of idiots.
April 30, 2008 7:46 PM
 

HSHS Rep 08 said:

I believe that this is rediculous.Who would do something like this.Firstly, the principal had no right as in taking such actions.She could have went to the students she posted and told them that PDA will not be tolerated during school hours.Being a teenager is hard enough with drugs,sex,and gangs.but to be humiliated in front of the entire school and by the principal.LAWSUIT.No one can dictate how one lives his or her life.Whether it be gay,straight,or even bisexual.Yes telling the parents is the right thing to do.But by the person him or herself.When the principal called the parent that was out of order out of place as and adult status.
April 30, 2008 8:14 PM
 

mgm09 said:

tennisplaya01: I am a student at h.f.p and i was there last year when you were the chemisrty teacher... and as I recall YOU "tennisplaya01 aka y.m" were the ONE that starting "outting" the homosexual couples!!!!! am i not correct???Yes I AM!!! Must I remind you that YOU were the one "THE TEACHER" that started rumors about the students sexuality! So how dare you say that Ms. Beasley started a list? WHAT LIST???? You are a real live  HABITUAL LIAR!!!
April 30, 2008 8:25 PM
 

Proud Student said:

To you, tennisplaya01, you may remember me...maybe you won't! But the point is...YOU ARE A LIER! You have had it out for Ms. Beasley since the students started to report YOU to her! You can not speak negatively about Ms. Beasley simply because you are not in any position to speak! First of all, were not you the first person doing all of the "outing" that Ms. Beasley is accused of now? Did not you invade the privacy of each H.F.P. Student while at H. F. P. (the reason why you are no longer at H.F.P.) Please, don't talk! You speak about a list, but there was no list present for us, the students, to see! Nick and Andrew were not the only gay people's names on the list either. Ms. Beasley is a very respectable person, and your judgment does not matter. If we had the facts straight, you will find that there was no "list" posted in the office, there was no "outing" to the students because he "outed" himself when he and Andrew were PDAing in front of the students. So, there was no "outing" simply because he was already "out"! Nick really should just let it go before we, THE STUDENTS, bring out the real facts!
April 30, 2008 8:28 PM
 

mgm09 said:

tennisplaya01: I am a student at h.f.p and i was there last year when you were the chemisrty teacher... and as I recall YOU "tennisplaya01 aka y.m" were the ONE that starting "outting" the homosexual couples!!!!! am i not correct???Yes I AM!!! Must I remind you that YOU were the one "THE TEACHER" that started rumors about the students sexuality! So how dare you say that Ms. Beasley started a list? WHAT LIST???? You are a real live  HABITUAL LIAR!!!
-Mohogany G.
April 30, 2008 8:48 PM
 

Proud Student said:

Hello! My name is Crystal West. I am a Junior at Hollis F. Price Early College High School. My username is: Proud Student (Yolandalyn(since you want to disrespect Ms. Beasley by calling her by her first name!)...just in case you were wondering.) And for all of my comments...I will be using my name from now on! Ms. Beasley...one word...INNOCENT!
April 30, 2008 8:52 PM
 

mrsholmes said:

I think that the principal's behavior is totally outrageous.  Who is she to out students? What business is it of any one in the school to know whether or not a person is gay BEFORE that person is ready for people to know it.  eben though i am out and proud now, I would have been devestated to have my sexuality announced to classmates or even my parents before I was mentally and emotionally ready for it to happen, as the ones who were outed may feel.  The child's education, not his/her sexuality, is the business of the principal, and if this is how she operates, then i'm thinking maybe she needs to be in another line of work.
April 30, 2008 9:35 PM
 

lildaddy said:

I don't think the principal was wrong for outing the students because it is not the norm and they should not b showing any signs of affection at school anyway. maybe she went to far as to letting the other kids know but i think she did the right thing. these kids need to b taught that being gay is not supposed to b flaunted around as a fashion statement.
April 30, 2008 9:36 PM
 

ggretz said:

Even though some people are gay, does not mean anyone should have the right to invade their privacy.The principal has gone way too far and should not have posted the lists for anyone with the school to see.The students on the lists however, should not be showing signs of affection at school.
April 30, 2008 10:24 PM
 

ggretz said:

I forgot to add that the parents should know if they do not.
April 30, 2008 10:29 PM
 

mysmilingskull said:

I totally agree.......I would want my kids to tell me themselves. It is NOT up to any teacher, principal, boss, whatever. If this principal felt there was a PDA problem, then any list she made is pretty much pointless because how many couples in high school are together forever? At any rate she should've kept it locked up somewhere, NEVER putting it up to be seen!

HSHS Rep 08 said:
I believe that this is rediculous.Who would do something like this.Firstly, the principal had no right as in taking such actions.She could have went to the students she posted and told them that PDA will not be tolerated during school hours.Being a teenager is hard enough with drugs,sex,and gangs.but to be humiliated in front of the entire school and by the principal.LAWSUIT.No one can dictate how one lives his or her life.Whether it be gay,straight,or even bisexual.Yes telling the parents is the right thing to do.But by the person him or herself.When the principal called the parent that was out of order out of place as and adult status.
April 30, 2008 11:44 PM
 

Static said:

Some thing that a lot of you fell to pay attention to, the Gay and *** group has petition the Federal Government for state funds  "our tax dollars" to build Alternative Lifestyle bathrooms" on all school campuses.

If this goes through this will cost close to $200 Million dollars.  

No it's not the teacher responsibility to out the students, but who is going to use those facility's once they are built.

Maybe The Tooth Fairy.
May 1, 2008 7:07
 

Static said:


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Should a Memphis principal have told a parent that her son was gay?
Yes. The parent had a right to know. 16%

No. It was not appropriate for the principal to "out" the student. 75%


If the child was showing inappropriate behavior in school or during class the Staff had every right to inform the parents.

School staff have a job to protect and provide a safe environment regardless of the sexual orientation.

Specifically if it hinders children ability to learn.
May 1, 2008 7:52
 

jerry junior said:

It is my opinion, as a gay student, that Ms. Beasley did absolutely nothing wrong. she did what was best by involving the parents in order to cut down on the PDA. As it relates to tennisplaya01 aren't you the one to talk. As I, Jerry can recall, you outed myself and others in front of your third period chemistry class. You created more rumors than the national inquirer, and all the other tabliods combined. I believe that you need stay as far away from Hollis Price as possible because   YOU, YOLANDALYN, ARE FAR WORSE THAN MS. BEASLEY CAN EVER BE!!! It was you who who began outting EVERYONE, even those who aren't GAY!!! As far as Argyllboy goes, SHUT UP!!! If you are  as confident in you educational status, as we are, considering that we are  the Only high school in the STATE OF TENNESSEE that was recognized as one of the top schools, we are at liberty to use the Kings English as we chose. if you have a problem please email me at askjerryhfp@yahoo.com for further information. Nicholas is my best friend,  I am not at liberty to be behing him in this situation, primarily because this has been blown out of proportion. Not only has this  horrible ordeal brought negative attention to Hollis F Price, but tarnished the beautiful name of Principal Daphne Beasley. Once again I am Jerry, and I am a junior at Hollis F Price Middle College High School, and I stand 279.99% behind My principal and her actions. The media is portraying her as someone that she is not. If she in fact had a problem with homosexuality why is it that she and I have a great student-principal relationship. NEVER has she mistreated me. NEVER has she called me out. Never has she been descriminitory. She has been a ROLE MODEL. I feel that if half of the students who smile in the principle's face are on here talking about her like a dog, when people are letting animosity get the best of them, thus causing her to look as though she is being something that she is not. Hollis Price Students, those of you leaving comments about Ms. beasley as opposed to comments about the situation at hand, I'd like for you to email me once again at askjerryhfp@yahoo.com because I would like to know why you are making this about more than it is and more than it should be. If you have an issue with your principal, because she is brought up on false accusations it is not a valid reason for you to "get on your soapbox". I am going to end by saying that I have nothing against Nicholas it is the situation that  I am displeased with, and I wish the best to My Principal D. Beasley.

Keep your head up, Ms. Beasley,
Jerry Jr.
May 1, 2008 9:08
 

HFPSenior said:

Your facts are so wrong lady. I love you but the student wanted to go one the end of the year trip not the leadership conference. We went to Six Flags in Atlanta and as a pregnant student it was best for not to be able to go. Ms. Beasly never outed students to the student body they did it themselves. Ms. Beasly followed Blue Ribbon Code of Conduct. She had every right to take it to the parent since the student didn't want to follow the rules given to the student by the principal. While at school the students are as the principal's children and must abide by her rules as if she was a parent. Now that the story was taken to the media under false accusation Nick and his mother should not get a dime because the story was embellished. Yes Nick has his rights but wants you violate the rules laid down by the principal your parents should be notified. The students of the school never saw a list and even if there was one it would not have been our first time being notified about the relationship.
May 1, 2008 9:41
 

East Memphis said:

"  Monty said:
"Being gay is pathological"

No it is not, over 100 psychological, psychiatric, medical, nursingm and social worker organizations have come out and stated that all evidence shows that homosexuality and bisexuality are normal. "
________________________________________________________________

Being gay is NOT normal despite the intensive PR relations to the contrary.  Being gay is a pathological lifestyle.  Until intense political pressuring it was listed as a mental illness by the DSM.  Gays suffer mental problems at far higher rates, venereal diseases at literally 10 times the rate, higher murder and crime rates etc.  No matter how you dress a cow turd it is still a turd.

There are many pressures in youth - the last thing we need to do is legitimize this sick lifestyle to a bunch of 12 and 13 y/o's.  (It starts far earlier than that in some school systems.)  You and your homo friends stay away from my kids with this "it's normal" trash. Go after someone else's children.

Being gay is pathological.  A child should not end up gay because our schools teach him or her it is OK.
May 1, 2008 9:46
 

rwe38133 said:

I cannot understand some of the ignorance that I see on this posting.
Being GAY is not a choice. Who in their right mind would choose to be a "social pariah". Who would choose to be a social outcast and have society focus on themselves. It is not a choice and it is not a learned behavior. That is just stupid thinking. There have been many men that have been molested and gone on to get married and lead normal lives. Some people are not. Just as some women are able to lead normal lives after being raped. And on that subject, stating that someone would choose to be gay is just like saying someone would choose to get raped. That is old world, stupidity!!
No one wakes up one day and say, "Humm, what a great day to be gay."
You make it sould like it's just like choosing an outfit. It is not.
Until you have been a homosexual and you know what it is like to be one, you have no idea weather it is a choice or not, do you.
You cannot choose to a lifestyle, and it is ignorace like yours that makes people stay in the closet. Because thought processes like that is the reason Matthew Shepard was murdered.
No one but no one has the right to divulge that sort of information, not even to ones parents. If you were cheating on your spouse, would you expect your workplace to call your spouse or your parents and give that information? It's the same thing. I think many parents basically know if their child is gay, but it is between the parent and the child to come to those terms and discuss. It is no place for the school to intervene, unless the child asks his teacher/principle to do so.
Many women would be shocked and appauled to find out that their husbands were giving/getting sexual favors from other men. Let's discuss that!!!
May 1, 2008 10:07
 

Proud Student said:

Crystal West, a Junior of Hollis F. Price: Again, I say again! You people should really just listen to the tapings and read the letter to find the underlying truth! Nicholas has been lying throughout this entire ordeal. To Nicholas' mother: Lady, you were certainly the LAST to know. That's probably the reason why you are saying so much now! Ms. Beasley said not a word, and DID NOT "out" anyone! I had believed that I was finished...but I am not! Ms. Beasley is the GREATEST PRINCIPAL IN THE WORLD!  Might I add...Highly intelligent! So, why WOULD SHE DO SOMETHING LIKE WHAT SHE IS ACCUSED OF? EXACTLY!!!!! SHE SHOULDN'T!!!!! Especially, since she has done NOTHING WRONG! Ms. Beasley apologizing...OF COURSE NOT!!!! Why? Because she has done nothing wrong! If you have something to say...please contact me also at Jerry Bradford's e-mail adress: askjerryhfp@yahoo.com . Please do so if you have ANYTHING to say to me, Jerry, or MS. BEASLEY because when you speak of her, YOU DEAL WITH ME! Yolandalyn...SAY SOMETHIN'! I WANT YOU TO! You are full of lies...and you have been exposed! HFP HAS EXPOSED YOU FOR WHO YOU TRULY ARE!
May 1, 2008 11:57
 

rwe38133 said:

proud student, u so funny. I can just see you with your Shineenee head wobbling all over the place and your index finger sticking up in the air and swiveling that all around. Hope your weave is straight.
Puckering your lips for the dramatization.
Go on wid ya girrrlll!!!!
May 1, 2008 12:13 PM
 

MWashington said:

Hello HFP students!  I love and miss you guys.  See you at graduation.  Texas is great.  No other comments.
May 1, 2008 12:21 PM
 

deshawn2 said:

For me to hear about something like this happeing it really scares me and makes me mad because one of the stundents who was outed was a personal friend. i can't believe that someone would actually do such a thing as to out him to his mother. The principal had no right to do what she did. I think that a public apology is needed. I send my prayers up for my friend and all those who where outed.
May 1, 2008 12:39 PM
 

gmoney2u said:

rwe38133 said "proud student, u so funny. I can just see you with your Shineenee head wobbling all over the place and your index finger sticking up in the air and swiveling that all around. Hope your weave is straight.
Puckering your lips for the dramatization.
Go on wid ya girrrlll!!!!" Not only are you attacking a minor with your lack of brain matter but then you go and stereotype her as well. What a loser!!!!!!!!!!
May 1, 2008 12:45 PM
 

allforright said:

I am so sorry that HFP High School has to endure this tragedy.  This is truly a tradegy, because those of you who are berating Principal Beasley on her actions.  If you have not been on the campus to see what goes on, or have spoken to students who know what is happening on the campus, then you are dealing with a one-sided situtation.  The two students in question displayed "public affection" so much that Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles could see that they are not normal.  I don't think that normal or straight individuals have to touch each other, hide in corners, watch who is watching them.  They do not hang out with known individuals who everyone knows is out there.  To the parent who says that she was informed of her son's sexuality by a telephone call from the principal, "Are you in your son's life all the time, or are you using the same eye sight as "Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles", or if know one say's anything then I won't.  You knew and now you are ashamed of your son.  Even more so, because of this, you have brought your son to public shame.  My grandmother always said " You are known by the company you keep", so your son was in the company of his choosing, so now he has to admit to what he is or want to be.  So why be shame.  He stopped being in the closet when he spoke on the news interview.  While you were trying to make someone else look bad, your son is the one who will be looked upon in public by everyone.  You should have thought about this more clearly.  You know every story has two sides and you only listened to one.  Ms. Beasley is just like any other human being, she has her flaws, but she also have a school to run with rules and regulations that have to be abided by each and every student.  She cannot decide to let the two "supposely outed" students have their way. And by the way, when was the last time you attended a PTIO meeting to find out what is going on at school?  I commend Ms. Beasley for having the courage to want to speak to you about what she thought was a concern.  Looks like she was the only one concerned about your child, your mind is on money.
May 1, 2008 2:30 PM
 

HFPSnapplekid2 said:

Ms. Murray got roasted..haha.. You tell her Jerry and Crystal. I never cared for Ms. Yolandalyn anyway. And to you Gmoney. Proud Student is not a Shenanah type of person. She is one of the most sophisticated students we have. She is very intelligent and mature for her age. How dare you? You probably meant well but it did not come out that way. This issue needs to cease at once. Our principal has finally been freed of all allegations and false accuastions. Nick ended his secret with the PDA and the interview as everyone has said.  Nick knew what type of school he attended. It is quite small and we are like a big family at HFP. Let it be known that HFP will rise above all of this. I as a Senior with my fellow seniors will prove to the world that we are above this pettiness. We will show all, how eduacted and superb we are and what our school is made of. As we tried to prove to all on Monday by being on the Top 10% list. The rest of our student body shall follow our path. Ms. Beasley, you are still the best.
May 1, 2008 8:06 PM
 

jread2020 said:

I believe the principal was exacyly right.School is for learning and open gay activities should not be tolerated in any school,ones right is one thing but gay acts in school is going to far.The parents should be ashame.
May 1, 2008 9:33 PM
 

aceyville said:

I LOVE WHAT THE PRINCIPAL HAVE DONE-IF YOU ARE ASHAMED OF WHAT YOU ARE THEN THAT MUST MEAN YOU KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH IT.BECAUSE I DONT HEAR NONE OF THE STR8 PEOPLE COMPLAINING ABOUT BEING OUTED
May 1, 2008 10:31 PM
 

cycloanarch said:

I have rarely seen such poor journalism on the part of a news agency. If these students, homosexual or straight, were engaging in sexual activities on campus it was within the principals rights, and her duty, to alert their parents. The statement from the schools reads that "The principal did not list any information other than students’ names on her personal call list, and she certainly did not specify the sexual orientation of any student". It was made clear to these students that this behavior would not be tolerated. The "journalist" reporting this story should have examined the facts and presented them as such instead of resorting to sensationalism in order to boost ratings and to insight outrage.This story was evidently not ready for air and should have been postponed until more information was available.
May 1, 2008 10:34 PM
 

AlyCat said:

The principal was correct in contacting the parents.  When a student is conducting themselves in an inappropriate sexual manner, the parents should be told regardless of the students sexual preference.  School is for learning it is not a dating forum.

If the student was concerned about being "outed" perhaps they should not have been conducting themselves in such a manner where all could see.  
May 1, 2008 10:43 PM
 

jifjef2005 said:

As a student at Hollis F. Price MCHS, i feel as if our principal acted within her bounds when reporting to parents their child's sexual preferences. It is the right of the parent to know who their child is involved with, whether they are homosexual of heterosexual. What the press is doing, in my opinion, is harassing an innocent woman.
May 2, 2008 8:18
 

Static said:

   

Some thing that a lot of you fell to pay attention to, the Gay and Les. group has petition the Federal Government for state funds  "our tax dollars" to build Alternative Lifestyle bathrooms" on all school campuses.

If this goes through this will cost close to $200 Million dollars.  

No it's not the teacher responsibility to out the students, but who is going to use those facility's once they are built.

Maybe The Tooth Fairy.
May 2, 2008 9:39
 

frances said:

I trying to figure out who is the child and wh\o is the parent, that's our problem today with our children we are allowing them to make to many of the wrong decisions.It's not about sexuality but it's about children respecting other classmates as well as the school staff members why are they at school doing these types of things anyway, that just shows that the parents don't know much about their children as they should. If anyone is able to put up the student handbook of MCS students and parents I have read on several occassions that students are to keep their hands to themselves and are not allowed to feel on each other in inappropiate ways.We are not sending our children to school to explore their sexuality but to get an education. I feel that we are letting these children make to many decisions and that's what's leading to our high rates of crime, std's,drop outs, teen mother's,gang members,drug dealers or users. what are we suppose to do wait until our children fall into cracks and then say I told you so, well I feel that a good parent is suppose to try with all their power to make sure that their children recieve the best at everything and give them a good life and if that mean a principle calling me making me aware of my child's behavior in school then so be it, it's my responsibilty  to address the fact that my child does'nt   feel secure enough to come to me and talk about their feelings or problems. I feel that everyone is jumping to conclusions and should put these children education first before anything else. The situation is more of embarressment than anything. I feel that we should have a school board meeting on this situation and let the parents speak on it because I'm pretty sure this is not the only school with same sex couples and we can  see how they address the same or similar issues. I most definality do not feel that the principle should suffer from this situation because she has to take all accusations seriously and she's responsible for over 100 students so we have to everyone in prespective here, every child counts no matter what or who they are, the important thing is that you know when and how to be who you are,no I'm not saying over it up , but it's a time and place for everything, and you should not do things in public or in front of adults that you would not do at home or in front of your parents. RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERS.  
May 2, 2008 1:06 PM
 

ant09 said:

well i think that the principal was wrong for that because of the simple fact it's there life and they should live it the way they want. Every one does not want the "American Dream" of a wife and kides they just want to do what makes them happy and if that is what makes them happy so be it IT'S THERE LIFE THEY CAN LIVE IT THE WAY THEY WANT TO GET USE TO IT.
May 2, 2008 2:13 PM
 

Static said:

Just as long as they don't share affection in school.....
May 2, 2008 10:44 PM
 

Static said:

If the child was showing inappropriate behavior in school or during class the Staff had every right to inform the parents.

School staff have a job to protect and provide a safe environment regardless of the sexual orientation.

Specifically if it hinders children ability to learn.
May 2, 2008 10:45 PM
 

TigerRoseGirl said:

That's not fair.
Everyone should have Equal Rights
Gay, Les, or Straight
May 3, 2008 11:39
 

East Memphis said:

"   TigerRoseGirl said:
That's not fair.
Everyone should have Equal Rights
Gay, Les, or Straight"
_______________________________________________________

A product of the new educational paradigm.  There are NO sexual rights sweetie.
May 3, 2008 12:43 PM
 

harrycontests said:

Guys, please take two minutes to sign a petition demanding the principal's removal from any position where she has authority over students at  http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/Homophobic_Principal

You can also e-mail the school board president at hartt@mcsk12.net  

Make sure your friends sign it too!
May 4, 2008 4:08 PM
 

Proud Student said:

DO NOT SIGN ANY PETITION, SIMPLY BECAUSE THE MEDIA DID NOT HAVE THE TRUTH! SHE IS NOT HOMOPHOBIC! ONE OF HER MOST PROUD GAY STUDENTS, JERRY JUNIOR, IS ALWAYS AROUND HER AND IS ONE OF HER MOST PROUD SUPPORTERS IN THIS ENDEAVOR! DO NOT SIGN THIS PETITON UNTIL YOU RECIEVE THE "TRUTH"! FOR THE COMPLETE TRUTH...E-MAIL EITHER JERRY OR ME AT askjerryhfp@yahoo.com. THIS IS NOT ABOUT DISCRIMINATION, BUT IT IS WHAT THEY WERE HOPING FOR! THEY WERE HOPING FOR HER TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST THEM BY "NOT" CALLING THE PARENTS, BUT SHE TREATED THEM FAIRLY AND EQUALLY!
May 4, 2008 9:53 PM
 

SimplyMe said:

I don't think that this principal has gone too far at all.  My child is a student at this school and I think it is a wonderful school.  I love the way she is stern and strict.  The school that my child attended before - had me running up there everyday due to fights, and he said she said crap that they were involved in.  I have not once had to even call or have restless sleeps at night because this Principal means business - she does not play.  This list is something that doenst mean anything to me, for all I know my child may even be on the list as being a couple.  So what if my child is on the list or not; who cares.  All I care about is education and quality that my child is getting at this school.  I think that this is what is truly wrong with our kids today - too much of this my rights crap.  We need to bring spankings back.  Now I can agree with others that if she did let everyone see the list then it that wrong.  But whose to say that she actually did.  My child says that he/she hasnt seen the list nor doesnt know anyone that has.  This is truly a Sad way to get a "Good Principal Out".  I am glad she started a list - and I truly welcome her to call me at anytime if my child is out acting inappropriate at school.  That would be very disrespectful for my child to engage in adult activities.  So I want to thank Principal Beasley in advance for looking out and not trying to make me a Young Grandma.  - In other words call me if you see mine doing anything out of order!  I think you are a Great Principal and I thank you for being who you are.  Hang in there God will work it out.
May 4, 2008 10:31 PM
 

SimplyMe said:

Please focus your attention on topics such as "Who will be our next Supertiendent?" or "Gang Violence" or what about "Weapons in School"  no - Lets talk more about how can we bring “More discipline back into the schools" anything but this crap and putting down a Good Woman who was just doing her job!  I would love to know if my child is behaving out of the normal.  If I wasn’t told then I would be upset.  What do you people really want - One minute they’re mad if they’re not told about their child the next they’re not - Come on Make up your mind up already.  Maybe they should include a little packet in the registration for school forms asking a parent if he or she wants to know if their Suzy or Johnny was suicidal, behaving badly, skipping school, etc etc.. or kissing in the hallway.  For all those parents who don’t want to know “Sign it and Shut Up!”
May 4, 2008 10:45 PM
 

Chelle said:

Sounds to me like this was blown up way out of proportion!  

I don't know the entire story, as this appears to be a case of he said/she said.   It does seem sad that a principal that otherwise seems on the ball is being persecuted for something that was already well known around the school....

I'm not sure about the contacting the parent part of this debacle.   As a former teen, I can understand the desire for privacy.   As a current parent, I'd want to know anything pertinent to my teen.  

What I do know, is that the teens who are coming here worried about the reputation of their school shouldn't worry.   News becomes old news real fast.  Stay proud of your school, learn as much as you can, and enjoy these years as they fly by WAY too quickly.  

May 5, 2008 6:21
 

rwidman461 said:

The principal was try to stop with  couples for what she calls to much public affection   not just them  two. So if they where add  they must have been doing the same things as the straight couples where. Did other families get call about there child's behavior
May 5, 2008 11:44
 

mattsmart said:

Well as a gay man myself, I have plenty to say... I am in college to be a lawyer also.
When I came out at 13 I didn't want my parents to know I was gay because my father was a Southern Baptist preacher. When I was outed, my parents found out and I was kicked out of my parents house... At 13 I slept under Hay Bails in Mississippi and had no-one to lean on...I did finish High School and worked my way through the years... I know what the ACLU is saying....

The Principal had every right to get a list from the faculty on whom was in relationships. But she had no right to blast or show the list to any students for any matter...

The Principal has now opened the door against this gay couple also known as "Second Class Citizens" with hardly any rights to our name...

Did you know...
*Any business can NOT hire you just becuase you are gay?
 This opens these young men up to job loss in the future, harrasment, assualt,      
 murder and verbal abuse...
May 5, 2008 6:41 PM
 

mrsholmes said:

As I stated in last night's school board meeting, I do agree that students SHOULD NOT be participating in PDA on school grounds.  What I don't agree with is the method in which it was handled.  The principal could have easily called the parent in for a parent/student conference and discussed the matter, instead of calling the parent to tell her that her son is gay.  I'm sure that the student is being subjected to discriminatory treatment and that is not fair to him as a student of a school system that states that their mission is to provide a "safe and healthy learning environment for students."  Coming out as a teenager is tough and being outed instead of being allowed to come out in his own way when he could mentally and emotionally able to handle it, is even harder to deal with on top of all the other problems that teens usually face.  Why don't some of you who are making negative comments try to look at the situation from the student's or even the parent's POV.  I'm sure you would understand better if you did, and if you can't, then I feel sorry for you.
May 6, 2008 12:41
 

TN woman said:

Apparently most of you are not reading the articles, only the rantings of irate parents and misinformed others. Did you all not see that Lemoyne Owen 'administrators' complained to the HFP administration of public indecent sexual behavior of their students. When students don't listen to alerts from their teachers and administration, when students ingore requests to stop very sexual PDA...then something has to be done. Whether 'hetro' or 'homo' makes no difference, if you are sexually active IN PUBLIC, the the PUBLIC already KNOWS! She did not 'OUT' anyone, they 'outed' themselves with their behavior in public. Parents are the last to find out because they DON'T CARE! Where the hell are you while your child is making out in public, whatever their sex. The principal is the only one that cares enough to do something about it. I hate it when parents are totally clueless, then they blame the system and everyone else instead of themselves!  Look in the mirror!
May 6, 2008 4:07 PM
 

TN woman said:

StudentRep......  you said the Principal embarrassed the school?  You got to be kidding. The students and their sexual public displays are the embarrassment! She did the right thing-contacted the parents of all students involved - whether hetro or homo. They should know. She did not call the parents via the newpaper, or use a megaphone while riding past their house - she confidentially called them! The fact that the parents are publically advertising these phone calls = is what all ignorant parents do when they don't want to look in the mirror and blame the one that is responsible!  
May 6, 2008 4:17 PM
 

TN woman said:

reading these comments....  who said the list was posted? Not anyone in the school. If the kids were making out in public, then it was no secret within the school and to anyone that was watching. God, some people are so limited...  how can you 'out' someone if they display  inappropriate PUBLIC SEXUAL behavior? The word PUBLIC means in front of EVERYONE - for ALL to see.  No surprises there except to the blind uncaring parents!
May 6, 2008 4:26 PM
 

TN woman said:

tennisplaya01  are you really a teacher?  A professional? You sound like a vindictive, coniving, hateful person..... I hope you are still not employed by MCS. There was and is no 'religious' forum. Other than the raving of religious fanatics, there is and was NO religion brought into this by the principal or anyone else. You sound worse than the crazy irresponsible parents who are now crying 'wolf'!
May 6, 2008 5:08 PM
 

Proud Student said:

1) There was NEVER a list posted revealing their sexual orientation publicly for anyone at the school to see.
2) She did not "OUT" them to everyone
3) It's hard for anyone to "out" people when they are the ones "outing" themselves.
4) Ms. Beasley DID NOT discriminate against them concerning any trip. The rules of the trip are that first priority goes to the students that have been at the school the longest and that have displayed improvement. These students had only been at our school for 1 1/2 years, when most other Juniors and Seniors 3-4 years.
5) Our school is sooo small that no one is considered an outkast. And you CAN NOT say that we treat them differently because when "they" decided to let everyone know about their relationship, we had nothing to say because they were not the only gay people at our school.(NO DISCRIMINATION)

For the people who want to make things seem as if they are bad, the students spoken of know that at our school, they have been accepted for who they are no matter what! That's probably the reason why we haven't heard from the other party involved, neither the other listed students on the list. I am sorry that some of you all's lives haven't gone that well, and you feel the need to sympathize with the boys. But please, don't let your "own" situation block out the fact that the principal WAS being fair, and did not break any rules! I stand firmly behind the actions of my principal 1,000,000% infinity. Why? Because she was ABSOLUTELY correct in her actions.
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